tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post654030619957309285..comments2024-03-28T21:56:51.675-04:00Comments on Face to Face: Food game, episode 1agnostichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-21326374640843624682008-03-24T21:41:00.000-04:002008-03-24T21:41:00.000-04:00Yo, I didn't say lie or grossly deceive -- Game is...Yo, I didn't say lie or grossly deceive -- Game is like learning how to fill out job applications, what to do at the interview, what to do even before applying for a job so that you'll have plenty of good things to say when you apply for one, etc.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-58917959080202660882008-03-24T19:00:00.000-04:002008-03-24T19:00:00.000-04:00Why dont you try the very novel concept of just be...Why dont you try the very novel concept of just being yourself and being polite to women you are attracted to and letting them know that you are single and looking in a respectful manner? You know, the way we have done since the beginings of modern civilization.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Warning: If you "mind-fuck" some gal and she winds up being your girlfriend due to psych tricks that make her feel that you have more "social value" than you really do.............someday, and it wont be that many months (less than two years surely unless she is stupid), she will wake up, look across the bed and see YOU. YOU with all your faults. She will not see you as smarter than you are, more wealth-earining and financially stable than you are, not better looking than you are, not wittier than you are, not "cooler" than you are or anything else. She will see YOU for who you are. <BR/><BR/>Ask yourself..........do you think some very average plain girl could "play" you into falling in love with her by subtley making you think she is "all that" and slyly making you feel a little nervous about the things that you have going for you yourself, undermining your confidence all the while pulling a month-long-mood scam on you? Me either, but thats pretty much what these things are. <BR/><BR/>Be yourself, look for a similar gal. You'll wind up being much happier. Divorces can be financiall ruinious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-58116517181358805952008-03-23T18:39:00.000-04:002008-03-23T18:39:00.000-04:00What anonymous said. If she's at your place, it's ...What anonymous said. If she's at your place, it's game over. You no longer need seduction, you just need to not do anything really stupid.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-55824708876032376532008-03-22T22:34:00.000-04:002008-03-22T22:34:00.000-04:00None of this sounds right to me. In my experience ...None of this sounds right to me. In my experience if a woman is willing to come to your apartment she's willing to have sex with you. At that point you don't have to feed her.<BR/><BR/>At only one time in my life have I had a date come back to my apartment only to discover, when I tried to initiate sex, that she wasn't expecting sex. We still had sex.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-75626450238732852292008-03-21T09:17:00.000-04:002008-03-21T09:17:00.000-04:00- Working as a waiter, I used to recieve many IOI'...- Working as a waiter, I used to recieve many IOI's from females. Probably because I was bringing them food, looking after them etc. Bobby Rio, a PUA on Seduction Bible, talked in his podcasts about how he used to score like hell when working in a restaurant.<BR/><BR/>- The great thing about bringing her shopping and then making a meal for her is that you're conveying non-neediness (you've gotta eat, she's just joining you, you would cook for yourself anyway) but also that you are absorbing her into your frame.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-36643137441972369892008-03-21T08:14:00.000-04:002008-03-21T08:14:00.000-04:00Yeah. And just in case any guys reading still thi...Yeah. And just in case any guys reading still think a restaurant is a good date idea:<BR/><BR/>- You're sitting across from one another, making kino escalation, probably the most important part of pickup after attraction (and it generates attraction in itself) Remember, as a species, kino was helping guys close before language even existed.<BR/><BR/>- Usually in restaurants you eat a lot. When girls eat a lot of food do they usually feel good about themselves? Nope. You think she'll put out if she feels bloated and TIRED? She'll probably even need to ablute afterwards, not very sexy. A stuffed girl is a self-conscious girl. Self-conscious girls are good for attraction, deadly for seduction. So take note - if you're making her a meal, keep it light enough. Have great buffet like selection though, as agnostic says.<BR/><BR/>- Money means little to women. What is money really? Pieces of paper, fluff, and that's how a girl probably views money subconsciously. So what does that mean? Bascially - when you pass this ethereal substance to the waiter at the end of the date, the moment has lost all effect on your target. She has just been served food on a platter by this waiter, cooked by someone else - subconsciously the waiter and cook (who she can't even see!) have flipped her protection of loved ones switch more than you have, you idiot! You handing over a couple of green slips at the end will not undo the damage. So at least before first intimacy, always cook for her yourself. <BR/><BR/>- Oh wait, her brain will conclude one thing from you spending piles of money on her in a restaurant - NEEDINESS.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com