tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post7485017802441266598..comments2024-03-27T23:28:20.274-04:00Comments on Face to Face: The gay breathy voiceagnostichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-86865628765399042692012-09-22T16:40:44.557-04:002012-09-22T16:40:44.557-04:00I disagree with this. The relationships I've h...I disagree with this. The relationships I've had with my best gay boyfriends have been very physical and intimate. We hold hands and kiss (though not normally in the french style) and yes, I will sit on his lap, jump into his arms, all of that! I regret that it seems impossible to have this kind of relationship with my straight girlfriends because it might be nice! But what I like about my best gay boyfriends is that they never seem to mind the affection and that it will never ever lead to sex. I feel much more free to express myself when I know it will never lead to sex or discussions about "our relationship" and that kind of thing. Plus, I keep my freedom and independence. I do worry one day that if we never breakup (because I have had breakups) whether his new boyfriend will not be jealous of the bond we share. I think I just prefer to engage with a gay men, and especially the type that will tolerate my wild and passionate personality because sex is never part of the equation. And I'm just happier this way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-6386022696082120362012-03-31T16:57:04.271-04:002012-03-31T16:57:04.271-04:00"The nubile babe keeps fading from American p..."The nubile babe keeps fading from American pop culture. They're either too old (the whole MILF, cougar, desperate housewives trend) or too young (the pedomorphic trend above)."<br /><br />Why do you think that is?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-71213322551296001412012-03-31T15:30:19.428-04:002012-03-31T15:30:19.428-04:00Yeah, seems like the iris is blocking out too much...Yeah, seems like the iris is blocking out too much of the white part. Eyes like two moons, or like saucers, means a lot of white. We talk about jewel-like eyes, but that's more how brilliant the color is, not how large the iris is.<br /><br />As far as I can see, that look hasn't fully caught on in America yet, aside from the super-straight and thinned-out-looking hair. That also makes them look too young. Seems like you've got your thickest head of hair as an adolescent and young adult.<br /><br />The nubile babe keeps fading from American pop culture. They're either too old (the whole MILF, cougar, desperate housewives trend) or too young (the pedomorphic trend above).<br /><br />And even when they are the right age, their personality and behavior goes off in those too-old or too-young directions, the "young fogey" trend and the mousy boys-are-yucky trend.<br /><br />It didn't used to be so hard to find girls who were ripe-looking, and who were warm and inviting, boy-crazy but not slutty.<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hxIOu_xCyXg/T1Oo-EKvHAI/AAAAAAAAGU8/Z5zNAmmqEjI/s1600/Kelly+Kapowski+8.jpg" rel="nofollow">Kelly</a><br /><br />That's more like it.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-1783180569112922952012-03-31T05:05:06.865-04:002012-03-31T05:05:06.865-04:00When you look at women who have big eyes, it's...<i>When you look at women who have big eyes, it's the entire eye which is large, right, not just the iris? <br /><br />With a larger than normal iris, the girl just ends up looking like a baby.</i><br /><br />Good point, that babies have relatively large irises, net of their big eye size.<br /><br />Does actually seem like women are trying to make themselves look like babies anyway what with e.g. the hairstyling giving them the illusion of a low face like babies have by hiding their forehead, angling the camera so their chin has an insignificant size compared to their face and forehead, like babies.<br /><br />I wonder if that's a continuation of sexual dimorphism - girls having somewhat more baby faces than men (although with differences, like babies having a short nose [http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/1282503-overview#a0112 - distance g-sn) and women having a nose proportionate to their relatively longer face - or if it's more of an infantilisation trend.<br /><br />It's imported from Japan of course, but becoming relatively more popular in the West now might fit in with agnostic's described social and sexual advoidance trends and the trend for people to be less interested in mating characteristics that identify adolescents and young adults from older and younger people (kids, older mothers and fathers).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-7906049610940046552012-03-31T02:37:18.910-04:002012-03-31T02:37:18.910-04:00I think in some of the pictures, the girls are wea...I think in some of the pictures, the girls are wearing circle contact lenses, which make the iris appear much larger. <br /><br />I think it looks odd. <br /><br />When you look at women who have big eyes, it's the entire eye which is large, right, not just the iris? <br /><br />With a larger than normal iris, the girl just ends up looking like a baby.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-2104862577021553292012-03-31T02:35:39.140-04:002012-03-31T02:35:39.140-04:00Sorry. Off topic.
I was reading this story in ...Sorry. Off topic. <br /><br />I was reading this story in the tabloids about girl who try to look like dolls. There is something off in many pictures, but it's hard to say what exactly. <br /><br /><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2122177/Meet-real-life-Barbies-Internet-craze-sees-teenagers-turn-freakish-living-dolls.html" rel="nofollow">Link</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com