tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post725816300112556265..comments2024-03-28T21:56:51.675-04:00Comments on Face to Face: I gave older women a chanceagnostichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-60597428085345987612008-05-17T22:55:00.000-04:002008-05-17T22:55:00.000-04:00Maybe it's because I just watched The Silence of t...Maybe it's because I just watched The Silence of the Lambs, but your entire post can be summarized as "I can smell your c*nt". LOL <BR/><BR/>I don't think most women would respond well to a guy demanding a paternity test as a prerequisite for marriage....Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07065869944671716476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-3489594942273048022008-05-11T19:21:00.000-04:002008-05-11T19:21:00.000-04:00Gannon--While I appreciate the nice things you sai...Gannon--While I appreciate the nice things you said...I do not consider women that much younger than me "competition" and if I did that would be pretty pathetic of me....<BR/><BR/>I am in a relationship with someone I love and not "searching" for a man. I have one.<BR/><BR/>So I am not dating or having casual sex.<BR/><BR/>And Agnostic--I love women...I am a total girls girl and I am probably one of the least "jealous" girls I know of.<BR/><BR/>I appreciate female beauty and understand your appreciation of younger women. 100%.<BR/><BR/>I am not sure how me calling the way that girl dances vulgar is being jealous. <BR/><BR/>AND I did not call her a slut--I said the dancing looks whorish and not classy. I would never call someone a slut for how they dance...but the dancing sure is slutty looking.<BR/><BR/>I think like PA said...its a generational thing...we just don't find the appeal in it.<BR/><BR/>That being said...I appreciate the post...like I said before, you did make some really interesting and spot on points. <BR/>:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-55372799880232390222008-05-10T19:10:00.000-04:002008-05-10T19:10:00.000-04:00It's also very interesting how she tries to underm...<I>It's also very interesting how she tries to undermine the younger competion by calling them vulgar and whorish, something also very common about women.</I><BR/><BR/>Females are their own worst enemies. There is almost no conflict between males and females per se. Most conflict is between males and males, or females and females.<BR/><BR/>That's why feminism was only a fad -- pretending that all females are sisters oppressed by the man is too silly to believe for very long. Deep down, every sane female knows that the majority of her oppressors are other females, like the ones who call her a slut for wearing short shorts and shaking her ass.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-51090890212871206752008-05-10T09:02:00.000-04:002008-05-10T09:02:00.000-04:00Man, I definitively like the first video. How that...Man, I definitively like the first video. How that teen moves her ass does get my attention. The music is also cool.<BR/>I think Kassy K makes a lot of interesting points. She does look younger for her age, and she also dances, so that seems to confirm you theory that women who dance regularly age better by keeping fit. She also points out that she gets approached by younger guys, which does not surprise me since she is very attractive and younger guys look for casual sex with older women all the time. It's also very interesting how she tries to undermine the younger competion by calling them vulgar and whorish, something also very common about women. In order to age gracefully and dignified, a woman really has to get married at some point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-76567949001172429582008-05-09T18:14:00.000-04:002008-05-09T18:14:00.000-04:00I agree with Kassyk. There is nothing appealing ab...I agree with Kassyk. There is nothing appealing about the butt-shaking of the girls in your videos. It's skanky and does nothing for me. <BR/><BR/>I was a teenager during the 80s and I don't remember teenage girls, even the most exhubrant ones, dancing like that. A negroization of a segment of youth culture took place during the early 90s, and that's what you see in the videos.<BR/><BR/><I> She was Japanese, and they are better looking than the other East Asians. </I><BR/><BR/>Having lived in Korea for a year (military) and being somewhat acquainted with the Japanese, I'd say that in terms of the average baseline, Korean women are the best looking of the East Asians. But the best looking individual East Asians are Japanese.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-15046084286739152472008-05-09T17:51:00.000-04:002008-05-09T17:51:00.000-04:00I would never marry or date an East Asian. First, ...I would never marry or date an East Asian. First, while I prefer a youthful personality and energy, I don't have a preference for pedomorphism, other than for a babyface (large eyes, full lips, delicate jawline, soft bone structure). I like an hourglass figure and a large, firm butt.<BR/><BR/>I've seen exactly one East Asian who had all these traits -- I almost never do a double-take when I see someone good-looking, but she was so unusual that I had to. She was Japanese, and they are better looking than the other East Asians.<BR/><BR/>Halfies are fine, though, and it's common knowledge that someone who's exactly 1/4 East Asian is bound to melt hearts. Filipinas are also nice, but they are from Oceania.<BR/><BR/>East Asians also have too flat of a face for my tastes. I like high-relief faces, from the elegantly elongated noses of South Asia and the Middle East to the adorable overbites of the Spanish.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-22854487723915944522008-05-09T17:21:00.000-04:002008-05-09T17:21:00.000-04:00Have you considered marrying an asian woman? Most ...Have you considered marrying an asian woman? Most likely Korean-Japanese? The would seem to suit your desire for pedomorphism, as they fare better with age than whites. And are usually just as wild once you get to know them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-57765077355003366832008-05-09T17:06:00.000-04:002008-05-09T17:06:00.000-04:00But I'm not going to a dance club to marvel at dan...But I'm not going to a dance club to marvel at dancing virtuosity -- I go to ballet performances for that. The ass bounce may not be classy, but a little dash of trash is nice.<BR/><BR/>The girls who do the splits are all 16 - 18, so unless you go to dance clubs where this is the primary age group, you wouldn't see it. I grew up in Maryland, and the Black girls and wannabe-Black girls would do this without a doubt. Again, though, I only see about 5 girls do this, so it's not common either.<BR/><BR/>It's hard *not* to have fun around high school and college girls!agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-78915346841115717542008-05-08T15:13:00.000-04:002008-05-08T15:13:00.000-04:00Interesting thoughts, and they definitely made me ...Interesting thoughts, and they definitely made me think a bit.<BR/><BR/> I am a 29 year old woman who loves to dance and always has. My reason for going out is to dance and spend time with friends. A few of my friends are the same way—dancers. <BR/><BR/>We go out and still have all the energy and flexibility we had when we were 20, which is why we probably get hit on by much younger guys all the time when dancing…and these guys always think we are at least 5 years younger than we are…maybe the carefree dancing is part of it.<BR/><BR/>But in terms of the ass bounce that you have that girl in the video doing a few times…that isn’t really “dancing”…that is stripper ass bouncing, something most women in the their late 20s CAN do but choose not to. <BR/><BR/>It is very whorish looking and not very classy. I can dance sexily with a lot of movement without doing the ass bounce and that’s it.<BR/><BR/>And you will never catch a girl on the East Coast doing the leg split in a club. She would be mocked. Its just not considered cool or sexy here…in any age bracket. <BR/><BR/>Besides that, I agree with you.<BR/><BR/>Have fun with your high school girls…you seem to really like them and its nice to find something you like.KassyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05859514828888662789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-82750163471287187802008-05-07T16:16:00.000-04:002008-05-07T16:16:00.000-04:00If it turns out that 15 years is the best I can do...If it turns out that 15 years is the best I can do, then I'll marry a 20 year-old when I'm 35 -- that's still pretty sweet.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-8209520124315895862008-05-07T09:20:00.000-04:002008-05-07T09:20:00.000-04:00No, I've thought of that too. I won't be cuckolded...<I>No, I've thought of that too. I won't be cuckolded, so I'll make sure that the pre-nup says paternity test for any kid she has.</I><BR/>...<BR/><I>It will be fun to see how our kids turn out.</I><BR/><BR/>So, you do want to see how your kids turn out?<BR/><BR/>Factor in the risk of divorce & the courts favouring women. With foreign women from poor countries, factor in the risk of foreign spouses disappearing back to their home countries once you're sucked dry and the likelihood that the local authorities over there will have zero interest in helping you. <BR/><BR/>To protect yourself from any of this, you'd have to be wealthy and powerful or just one hell of a catch.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-69639943372883568612008-05-07T07:26:00.000-04:002008-05-07T07:26:00.000-04:00Look guys. If you go to a Mail Order Bride Side of...Look guys. If you go to a Mail Order Bride Side of Argentinian women, they will tell you things like that Argentinian women want guys who are 20, 25 or even 30 years older than them. They may take the deal, but it probably won't last. On personal experience I can say that if you are attractive to them, 10 years age difference (guy being older) is no problem at all, and the happiest marriages I have seen the man is 8-12 years older. Some women will also put up with men 15 years older. Gettting a wife who is 20 years younger and who will love you in thelong run is unrealistic.<BR/>By the way, Greece teen girls are famous in Europe for sleeping with older guys. 13-14 year old greece teen girls like to sleep with European University students who are tourists. When I was in Greece I remember seeing Greece girls as young as twelve with European guys as old as 25.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-24524858354610875402008-05-07T00:12:00.000-04:002008-05-07T00:12:00.000-04:00I don't know what the disease angle is, but it sho...I don't know what the disease angle is, but it shows up everywhere. It correlates with polygyny, emphasis on good looks, all kinds of stuff.<BR/><BR/>In every culture surveyed, females want older husbands, and males want younger wives. For the entire world, females prefer a husband who is 3.42 years older, males a wife who is 2.66 years younger (hmmm, seems like girls are more OK with age diffs than guys are!).<BR/><BR/>But in Bulgaria, say, females on average prefer a guy who is 4.18 years older. Their SD is 2.61, so that means a 3-sigma girl will want a guy who is about 15 years older than she is.<BR/><BR/>Such girls are about 1 out of 1000, and there are roughly 3.5 million non-Gypsy Bulgarian females, let's say a third of whom are in a desirable age range. That gives you a little over 1000 girls who'd prefer a guy 15 years older.<BR/><BR/>If it were 20 years older, it'd be less obviously, but you still might have 100 or so girls who'd be up for it.<BR/><BR/>I'm using Bulgaria as an example because I know you're trying to reconnect with your family's Slavic roots pretty soon -- you dog -- but the numbers are even more favorable in Brazil. The simple reason? There are about 25 times as many people there.<BR/><BR/>Just remember that when you search for your wife: you're more likely to find a 1 in a million girl in a country of 200 million than 7 million.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-74723313489279883952008-05-06T22:35:00.000-04:002008-05-06T22:35:00.000-04:00Girls are noticeably above the global average in p...<I>Girls are noticeably above the global average in preferred age difference in Greece, Iran, Colombia, Bulgaria, and some other disease-wracked places.</I><BR/><BR/>just to be clear, by above the global average do you mean women from these parts prefer men who are older or younger in preferred age relative to themselves? and if you mean they're OK with older men why would that be the case with women living in geographic regions where disease was more prevalent?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-60422621106438690202008-05-06T22:01:00.000-04:002008-05-06T22:01:00.000-04:00Don't forget that with the low birthrates in the W...Don't forget that with the low birthrates in the Western world there will be fewer young girls around when you're 39 than there were when your grandfather was 39.<BR/><BR/>Fuck! it's depressing to live during a civilizational decline.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-49843264026033529042008-05-06T21:47:00.000-04:002008-05-06T21:47:00.000-04:00If all else fails, I'll look up the girls on the B...If all else fails, I'll look up the girls on the Brazil Cupid website, find an 18 y.o. who's accepting of guys in their late 30s, and there we go. Or see if there's a place like Colombia where middle-class people are desperate to flee the war zone their country has become.<BR/><BR/>You have to do some basic research to find out where girls will be most favorable to dating you. Girls are noticeably above the global average in preferred age difference in Greece, Iran, Colombia, Bulgaria, and some other disease-wracked places. Noticeably below the global average are the US, French Canada, Finland, UK, and other less disease-wracked places.<BR/><BR/>You also have to find girls who come from a group with more pronounced sex differences -- they expect men and women to be very different, and age is part of that (blossoming girl and mature man). For more female-typical personality traits, Brazil is near the top in sex differences.<BR/><BR/>Also look for girls who are temper their impulse toward Romeo & Juliet love with a more realistic "what is he going to do for me?" mindset. Not just money, though that's part. Are you smart, good-looking, and ambitious? Well, she'll know that you're going to pass that on to her kids.<BR/><BR/>So, I would probably not end up with a really girly girl, since they don't think pragmatically at all, but even the more realist-minded 18 y.o.s are pretty girly inside.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-75222807527953928112008-05-06T20:59:00.000-04:002008-05-06T20:59:00.000-04:00@Roissy:I'm no coward and definitively don't act l...@Roissy:<BR/>I'm no coward and definitively don't act like an average guy or adhere to comformity, otherwise I wouldn't have had a girl in her middteens as a gf when I was 23. Having sex in your forties with twentysomething women is absolutely doable. However, there is a huge difference between casual sex and a stable relationship. 15 years is absoultely doable by the way, 40 and 25 or 18 and 32 will work great. But once you start crossing the 15 age barrier, women will start seeing you as a fatherfigure. The age difference will start to show and create problems. If you are serious about starting a family and have a longterm relationship with a woman which doesn't end in divorce, I wouldn't cross the 15 years age barrier.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-22639808321535826212008-05-06T16:44:00.000-04:002008-05-06T16:44:00.000-04:00gannon:Also, courting a woman who is more than 15 ...gannon:<BR/><I>Also, courting a woman who is more than 15 years [younger] than you is very difficult and probably requires fame and money.</I><BR/><BR/>it's not as difficult as many men lazily accept as fact. stay in shape, dress trendily, be culturally aware, don't go bald or if you do shave your head, act young, have energy, and most importantly know game inside and out.<BR/>i personally am currently dating a girl who is over 10 years younger than me and while the long term prognosis with her is shakier than it would be with a woman closer to my age, the short term (going on 2 months now) has been a blast. and my last 8 flings have all been 9-18 years younger.<BR/><BR/><I>Really, 15years is the limit, and your goal should be 8-12 years younger.</I><BR/><BR/>for the majority of men, i agree with this. but you don't have to resign yourself to being part of the majority. i don't.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-17500818571892052832008-05-06T16:36:00.000-04:002008-05-06T16:36:00.000-04:00I plan to marry in my late 30s, ideally to a girl ...<I>I plan to marry in my late 30s, ideally to a girl who's under 24 (not too tough to do if you have certain qualities, and you know what to look for).</I><BR/><BR/>this is an excellent game plan, and one i plan to follow if i ever let my guard down enough (that is, get seduced by an amazing woman) to consent to marriage.<BR/><BR/>but the more i get around, the more i come to the conclusion that DC women are simply unmarriageable. i may have to move to a smaller town to find an acceptable bride.<BR/><BR/><I>When she turns 28, I'll be 49 and likely won't be in a position to stray with a noticeably younger girl than she.</I><BR/><BR/>of course, the greater the age difference, the higher likelihood she'll stray. this risk can be ameliorated with proper application of game principles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-31011821843430560972008-05-06T11:27:00.000-04:002008-05-06T11:27:00.000-04:00Let's say I'm 39 and she's 18.I hope that's a joke...<I>Let's say I'm 39 and she's 18.</I><BR/><BR/>I hope that's a joke, cause otherwise, dude, you're in fantasyland. <BR/><BR/>First, if you stay in shape etc., I don't doubt you could have a fling with an 18 year old at that age, but get real, you're not going to find someone that age to marry you. <BR/><BR/>Second, a ten year difference is very workable, but more is iffy, especially when dealing with someone in their early 20s. Remember that right now you're in your twenties at he peak of your energy. Its not going to last.<BR/><BR/>34-24 is much more realistic. Once you pass 30 start looking around for someone who is 21-22. Trust me on this.Thursdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13002311410445623799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-83122172973477786172008-05-06T08:53:00.000-04:002008-05-06T08:53:00.000-04:00Getting a woman 10 or 12 years younger is realisti...Getting a woman 10 or 12 years younger is realistic, and maybe even optimal. However, most women don't really like men who are more than 15 years older than them. If you cross the 15 years age gap, she will startb seeing youb as a father. Also, courting a woman who is more than 15 years older than you is very difficult and probably requires fame and money. Really, 15years is the limit, and your goal should be 8-12 years younger.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-22587148615992767732008-05-06T04:48:00.000-04:002008-05-06T04:48:00.000-04:00No, I've thought of that too. I won't be cuckolded...No, I've thought of that too. I won't be cuckolded, so I'll make sure that the pre-nup says paternity test for any kid she has.<BR/><BR/>As for her getting with some other guy, which doesn't result in pregnancy, you try to minimize that risk, but it never reaches zero. Her character matters more than her age, though: I'll make sure to pick someone who is high in Agreeableness and average or high in Conscientiousness. It will be fun to see how our kids turn out.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-70745028108522216682008-05-05T23:41:00.000-04:002008-05-05T23:41:00.000-04:00I plan to marry in my late 30s, ideally to a girl ...<I>I plan to marry in my late 30s, ideally to a girl who's under 24 ...<BR/>Let's say I'm 39 and she's 18. When she turns 28, I'll be 49 and likely won't be in a position to stray with a noticeably younger girl than she.</I><BR/><BR/>Aren't you forgetting something? <I>She</I> might very well be in a position to stray with a noticeably younger man than you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-28530738007845798652008-05-05T18:02:00.000-04:002008-05-05T18:02:00.000-04:00The younger girls asked you about where you go to ...The younger girls asked you about where you go to school and not about what you do because all of them are probably still in school. <BR/><BR/>The older women are probably all working and they assumed that you were also working and so asked you what you do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-1074408466887521712008-05-05T17:03:00.000-04:002008-05-05T17:03:00.000-04:00A 17 year-old Argentine girlfriend -- fortune has ...A 17 year-old Argentine girlfriend -- fortune has been very good to you!<BR/><BR/><I>Quite frankly, what was appealing about her was that while she was physically young, she had personality characteristics that usually only tend to come with age.</I><BR/><BR/>It's true that the facets of Agreeableness increase with age -- modesty, tender-mindedness, altruism, empathy, etc.<BR/><BR/>But the reverse is true for facets of Neuroticism. I can't speak for every guy who's ever had a crush on an Audrey Rouget, but most of the appeal -- at least the part that hooks you at the start -- is her being delicate, fragile, self-conscious, and emotionally vulnerable. These trigger our protector instincts.<BR/><BR/>I wouldn't say she had a buzzkill vibe at all: she instinctively began playful arguments, got all tingly inside when she first saw Tom, acted coy around him, and so on. She wasn't a party girl, but she was not stable either -- she had her own type of youthful volatility ("Well if Lionel Trilling thought that, he's an idiot!").<BR/><BR/><I>You really seem to find women over 25 off-putting - do you think you could handle staying with your wife as she ages?</I><BR/><BR/>I plan to marry in my late 30s, ideally to a girl who's under 24 (not too tough to do if you have certain qualities, and you know what to look for). If I really do fall for someone before then, I'll get married sooner of course.<BR/><BR/>Let's say I'm 39 and she's 18. When she turns 28, I'll be 49 and likely won't be in a position to stray with a noticeably younger girl than she.<BR/><BR/><I>Have you tried Latin clubs?</I><BR/><BR/>I haven't, for several reasons:<BR/><BR/>1) It takes awhile to learn how to dance formally, at least enough to get noticed in such a club. If you've been doing it for awhile, that's cool, but I'm not going to start learning at 27.<BR/><BR/>2) I don't think we have many of them here in the Mountain Time Zone since the Hispanics are Mexican and therefore don't appreciate Caribbean music and cannot dance. With no critical mass of Hispanics to make the club seem authentic and cool, local Whites will never get into it either.<BR/><BR/>3) They seem to emphasize dancing too much, making it difficult to carry on a conversation.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.com