tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post3920152513416076549..comments2024-03-27T23:28:20.274-04:00Comments on Face to Face: Filling in the profile of guys who fantasize about being babes: They're boob menagnostichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comBlogger57125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-10829846443202347812016-04-30T06:58:19.024-04:002016-04-30T06:58:19.024-04:00It would be interesting to look at female to male ...It would be interesting to look at female to male transgenders. From what I can tell, some of them appear to be the mirror image of these lesbian-fetish latent transgenders. <br /><br />Not the ones who are basically hardcore butch lesbians. These are the women who fetishized gay male relationships and fixated on them like the ultimate fag-hags, believing that gay male relationships are superior. These are mostly female nerds who grew up reading slash-fiction and japanese yaoi/"boy's love" comics. <br /><br />There used to be a female-to-male tranny at the TERF site GenderTrender who spammed the comments with stuff about how women's bodies are disgusting and lesbians and straight people are gross. So she's more like the female equivalent of an autogynephile. <br /><br />It seems to be a much smaller phenomenon than the male latent tranny, though. Fortunately. Justinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-44638032367063914162016-04-29T23:03:10.512-04:002016-04-29T23:03:10.512-04:00Not wanting to restart thread, just preserve for p...Not wanting to restart thread, just preserve for posterity...<br />I don't believe writer is any kind of trannie. Just very sensitive and surrounded by liberal group.<br />Very smart, could see him changing his tune.Dahlianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-50814023528525270412016-04-26T18:47:35.389-04:002016-04-26T18:47:35.389-04:00"Many of the men involved in these activities..."Many of the men involved in these activities have extreme social anxiety/shyness and often times a profoundly crippled sense of self esteem."<br /><br />The crypto-trannies sound more like a case of "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em".<br /><br />I don't see much demonization of masculinity, at least in the pop culture that these guys consume. Comic book movies, FPS video games, life hack YouTube instructionals, etc. Sure, there's anti-male stuff out there, but it's only on TV shows that chicks watch.<br /><br />It's more like they're failed males, defeated males, and rather than try to suck it up and make themselves better, they're switching over to the other side. In their minds, an awkward guy sets off a girl's defenses more than a fellow girl, so he'll just fantasize about being that fellow girl (must be a hot one, though, otherwise what's his appeal to his target girl?).<br /><br />We're not talking overt trannies, so it's not as though these guys are actually walking the walk on "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," but that clearly fills their fantasy lives.<br /><br />It's like a relief valve -- if they're total failures as men, it must be the greatest fantasy to not even have to measure up to any male standards whatsoever. They become girls and sidestep the whole male mating dance stuff, which would have reminded them how little they resemble a dream guy in real life.<br /><br />However, when they fantasize about being a seductive babe, there's no cognitive dissonance with who they really are outside of fantasy land -- they're still male, and presenting as male, so they don't get depressed about not actually having large breasts and flowing hair. It allows them to compartmentalize.<br /><br />Contrast with the overt trannies, who get depressed about not looking like a babe, and are so possessed by body dysmorphia that they get hormones, make-up, clothing, even genital mutilation, in order to approximate their fantasy of themselves as babes.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-29250437656996453552016-04-26T16:37:10.061-04:002016-04-26T16:37:10.061-04:00Perhaps we're getting a taste (well, ok, a mou...Perhaps we're getting a taste (well, ok, a mouthful) of the excesses of a high inequality/low outgoingness period. <br /><br />Amorality/decadence are traits of high inequality, while a lack of outgoingness turns people into neurotic, asocial, and insecure bastards.<br /><br />I think when people are more connected to each other, we've got a better moral compass since we get lots of feedback from both friends and strangers alike. And we're more open to listening to that feedback. I think people are crazier nowadays in general since no one wants to "judge" anyone anymore and furthermore, nobody is willing to accept being criticized anyway.<br /><br />How many mass murderers, trannies, or hoarders do we need? People like this are totally unmoored by the vulgar/self-centered robber baron ethics of the day as well as cut off from help due to their own insecurity and the unwillingness of others to send them a message that their BS stinks.<br /><br />Lost in the hysteria over the bigoted past is that, sure, normal people could be cold at best to weirdo minorities. But it had the positive effect of keeping most of us on track. These days most people can't even find the track with the PC angst distracting us.Ferylnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-68885770480172433212016-04-26T16:30:20.754-04:002016-04-26T16:30:20.754-04:00Great comment Julio, adding to the role of cultura...Great comment Julio, adding to the role of cultural transmission from East to West that has been a big part of this: I recently saw that Scarlett Johansson will get another BKB role in an adaptation of a manga Ghost in the Shell (which the Matrix was largely based on), predictably, the focus was only on SJW feigned outrage over a "white" actress getting the role (as if most animu/mango characters look like typical Japanese.Marcusnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-52841919807809048802016-04-25T19:40:55.959-04:002016-04-25T19:40:55.959-04:00Perhaps maybe it's just the internet shining a...Perhaps maybe it's just the internet shining a light on this sort of thing, but the nerdy autogyno phenomenon seems to have manifested in a number of ways:<br /><br />1. The "masking" subculture - usually older gentlemen wearing creepy full body suits and masks. They have comic con-like conventions.<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLqGeK11-4g<br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bmvgNFl1vw&list=PLTmfdRsS9n7XsluGD2TOpCoJzsHIW1o5Z<br /><br />2. Whateley universe - An autogyno superhero fanfiction franchise popular enough to merit frequent mentions on "TV Tropes": "the Whateley Universe now encompasses something like 14 Canon authors, 20 fanfic authors also hosted on the site, and something close to 150 novels, novelettes, and short stories "<br />http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Literature/WhateleyUniverse?from=Main.WhateleyUniverse<br /><br />3. Crossplay - Geeky anime nerds, dressing up as their favorite characters. Popular in Asia (perhaps it is tied in with the "grass eater" phenomenon?) as well as the west, with young women getting into the act as well.<br />http://www.laweekly.com/arts/crossplay-an-introduction-2372956<br />http://www.cnn.com/2013/09/03/living/cosplay-crossplay-dragoncon-irpt/<br />Some of them are unnervingly convincing:<br />http://en.rocketnews24.com/2012/11/11/male-to-female-cosplayers-and-japans-cross-dressing-double-standard/<br /><br /><br />There are probably more ways this sort of thing is manifesting, but the three examples above seem to have one common thread. Many of the men involved in these activities have extreme social anxiety/shyness and often times a profoundly crippled sense of self esteem. In some cases (like the second video under #1) it comes from a physical deformity, like the subject's cleft palate. In most other cases, the causes of the underlying psychological trauma are not so clear. A lot of cases seem to contain triggers like divorce, incel, performance anxiety, and career setbacks.<br /><br />I suspect that what happens in these cases is that there is a self-esteem crisis that catalyzes the the initial disorder. The subject loses self confidence to the point of forsaking their identity, and takes on an alternative identity to cope. In a culture in which women are often pedestalized and lauded with traditionally male virtues to boot (witness the constant repetition of masculine terms like "fierce", "strong", "independent", "brave", etc. to glorify celebrity women), it seems possible that some men could find the idea of "hopping the fence" both appealing and even sensible. <br /><br />Add in:<br />a. a fetishistic component to the identity <br />b. constant positive media reinforcement of female identity as a virtue<br />c. constant negative media reinforcement of masculine identity and authority<br />d. the realities of liberated hypergamy (and the way it adversely affects men who aren't at the top of the social pyramid)<br />e. the atomization and isolation of modern lifestyle<br /><br />and we have the recipe for a powerful, full-blown addiction.<br /><br />Given the above realities, this issue could be affecting a much larger portion of the population than one might expect.Julio 9000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-27033655573486360392016-04-25T09:55:51.462-04:002016-04-25T09:55:51.462-04:00"Hardly any examples from the '70s, '..."Hardly any examples from the '70s, '80s, and early '90s." <br />Maybe, but this is the first example that came to mind for me https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Something_Wild_%281986_film%29Marcusnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-44403337910768177262016-04-25T01:48:33.794-04:002016-04-25T01:48:33.794-04:00confusedidentity touched on something else that I&...confusedidentity touched on something else that I'd like to elaborate. His utter submission to the will of the feminine smacks of the "Goddess"-worshiping culture that is thrust upon us. This a priori defining of women as Goddesses in mens' eyes makes the only possible relationship he can have with one is that of codependency. It's not a separate-but-equal complementary one, but a polarized, "you be this for me, and I'll be that for you" co-parasitism. Charades can't last indefinitely, but repress the true self long enough and watch it eek out in grotesque ways.<br /><br />As confusedidentity mentioned, his pedestalization came from deep-seated feelings of unworthiness in his male-ness. Unworthiness of what? A perceived Goddess, as dictated to him by culture/media before he could even think critically.<br /><br />As you can tell this post really struck a chord and got my mind churning.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-51452635179136238272016-04-24T11:48:16.971-04:002016-04-24T11:48:16.971-04:00That all being said, I do believe there is a sexua...That all being said, I do believe there is a sexual fetish involved, that they're autogynephiles, and they will mostly seek out lesbians in order to have their cake and eat it, too.<br />But they're so sick in the head, some more than most, that I don't put anything past them and do not trust them: they're up to no good.Dahlianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-70597131137039788842016-04-24T11:39:16.722-04:002016-04-24T11:39:16.722-04:00"I wonder if we'll ever hear about Bruce ..."I wonder if we'll ever hear about Bruce Jenner creepily hitting on his daughters or their friends. It sure seems like adopting the Millenial female persona is the first step toward sneaking into the younger babes' social and physical space, perhaps where he plans to go full-on pseudo-lesbo-tranny (a man in drag trying to get it on with a real woman)"<br /><br />Not any time soon. There is actually a talking point I heard being repeated by Chris Wallace, a conservative: No men have been (prosecuted? found? arrested?) for using tranny laws to harm women.<br />AND no left-wing or right-wing groups have found this...<br /><br />Oh, son! Just visit the radical feminist lesbian sites who've been documenting these. Of course, being just lesbian women, their findings and research are completely disorganized, but they're there. It was thanks to them that a convicted rapist-turned tranny and bathroom advocate was found out. The Chris Wallaces and the others are doing 0 searching or digging.<br /><br />To your original remembrance of how young they try to pass off, I remember your post discussing that though had forgotten. I am convinced that the bathroom/shower or private places movement is mostly about sex with far, far more numerous useful idiot allies taking liberalism further to its ultimate conclusion of radical autonomy per Lawrence Auster.<br />It doesn't seem to be the lady-boys into guys behind this, does it? Who actually have more to be afraid of with them being smaller and less aggressive than the "lesbians"?Dahlianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-48857547682226825942016-04-24T05:18:20.008-04:002016-04-24T05:18:20.008-04:00About autogynephile trannies and having a fling wi...About autogynephile trannies and having a fling with a younger woman -- it is strange how their image, and their name, is a lot younger than their real age. Bruce Jenner goes by "Caitlyn," which is a Millennial name, not a Boomer name.<br /><br />He doesn't LARP as a 70 year-old woman, but as a 20 year-old girl. But being middle-aged and elderly, these freaks only worsen the uncanny valley effect -- gender AND age are outta whack.<br /><br />I wonder if we'll ever hear about Bruce Jenner creepily hitting on his daughters or their friends. It sure seems like adopting the Millenial female persona is the first step toward sneaking into the younger babes' social and physical space, perhaps where he plans to go full-on pseudo-lesbo-tranny (a man in drag trying to get it on with a real woman).agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-55763936872519584832016-04-24T05:08:34.774-04:002016-04-24T05:08:34.774-04:00"He's So Dull" by Vanity 6 (1982):
..."He's So Dull" by Vanity 6 (1982):<br /><br />https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3c4hoImITAA<br /><br />In outgoing times, girls mercilessly mock the brooding, sensitive shut-in with no life. Hard to believe from the vantage point of our cocooning climate, where nobody bothers to shame them anymore.<br /><br />"The '80s were a weird time..." -- a couple of Millennial guys watching the old Incredible Hulk show on the wall-o'-TVs at the thrift store yesterday.<br /><br />I should've told them that the '80s were normal, it's 2016 that's weird.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-54206296908175453342016-04-24T04:56:25.015-04:002016-04-24T04:56:25.015-04:00I'd never heard that term before:
http://tvtr...I'd never heard that term before:<br /><br />http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ManicPixieDreamGirl<br /><br />Hardly any examples from the '70s, '80s, and early '90s. Men in outgoing times are less brooding and depressed because they're more socially engaged, so they don't care for a cheap wish fulfillment character like that. They aren't so socially awkward that meeting and relating with a real person is the end of the world.<br /><br />About the only example I can think of is Daryl Hannah's character from Splash! Then there was Lisa from Weird Science, but she's more of a black-humor subversion of the type.<br /><br />And then you had one new wave hit after another where the girl is complaining about some brooding buttoned-up guy who she had a crush on, but making fun of him instead of playing the "Prozac girlfriend" role.<br /><br />"Johnny Are You Queer?"<br /><br />"He's So Unusual"<br /><br />"He's So Dull"<br /><br />Etc.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-44722313769965509962016-04-24T04:44:17.533-04:002016-04-24T04:44:17.533-04:00The butt-kicking babe is someone who the crypto-tr...The butt-kicking babe is someone who the crypto-tranny imagines himself as. She's not really rescuing the character who the male viewer identifies with -- she is the one he identifies with himself. He imagines himself as a hero, saving people, accomplishing things, only as a babe.<br /><br />The manic pixie dream girl is not someone who the male viewer imagines himself as, though. The guy wishes that some girl would come to his aid, and here she comes. He doesn't imagine himself as that kind of girl because she's very girly personality-wise, and the crypto-tranny doesn't imagine himself as hyper-feminine, but more in the butt-kicking babe direction.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-79594954003812159382016-04-24T03:43:10.850-04:002016-04-24T03:43:10.850-04:00Dahlia, midlife crises brings to mind yet another ...Dahlia, midlife crises brings to mind yet another piece of the puzzle: Manic Pixie Dream Girls (often mentioned in conjunction with the "quarter-life crisis"). Another offshoot of the male yearning for elusive femininity is this toned down version of Butt Kicking Babe. The fanboy types who long to be "taken"* away by her more confident hand wish to be perceived by others as they perceive her: clever, desirable, capricious (fun to be around), attracts tag-along followers, eccentric, possessing Good Taste [TM], etc. A "Butt Kickin Babe" just for guys conditioned to reject violence indiscriminately.<br />*again with the reversion to the passive feminine role<br /><br />Same goes for the bumblefuck-husband/savvy-wife shows, which is truly sexist when you consider that the humor angle is intended to be amplified by this implied "role reversal": they're each stereotypes of the opposite gender. The men: helpless and insecure without her seemingly omniscient guidance. The women: wise and surefooted, the unsung hero who saves the day in spite of the nutless wonder practically TRYING to ruin the day, every day.<br /><br />Makes you wonder if there are other subtler stereotypes. How about Angela Chase, Lindsay Weir, Daria, etc? All male-like characters in their contemplative introspection and outwitting of men (read: jocks), impossibly pretty (read: desired) without even the normal social pressures to be constantly fretting over their looks (again, like men with women's bodies).<br /><br />Seems like these female characters are used to edge at male aspirations, without seeming overtly banal by casting an actual male. So men edge at possessing her qualities (function) by adopting the form, unconsciously.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-8494109648111320012016-04-23T22:23:34.614-04:002016-04-23T22:23:34.614-04:00After reading through a number of transwidow's...After reading through a number of transwidow's stories, I've been wondering if the autogynephile that's been long married as a man is basically our era's version of a man going through a "midlife crisis" (a subject Agnostic has touched on before). Surely, it's far more rare, but there seem to be a lot of similarities. The wives in these situations seem to have lost every bit of sexual appeal to their husbands: never any talk about the husbands begging for sex, pouting over sex withheld, nothing. Narcissism and delusion seem to be the the most defining features which aren't present nearly the same in the guy-trading-in-the-4-door-for-a-sportscar. Finally, the man ends up leaving, alienating, or withdrawing from his family for a new life.<br /><br />I went to do more reading about narcissism and autogynephilia and found this gem:<br />http://transwidows.tumblr.com/post/125468961037/do-you-think-autogynephiles-are-inherently<br /><br />"Do you think that autogynephilia can be cured? My soon-to-be ex-husband claimed that his affair with a younger woman "cured" his sexual fetish. Apparently he had been seriously considering gender reassignment surgery before starting this affair (the affair is the reason we are getting divorced). I'm trying to figure out who this person I married is."<br /><br />I guess the point of my comment is this: It all does make me wonder if the impulse to seek out women/younger women is being channeled, in a direction, across the board, in the spirit of our zeitgeist. <br />Also, all the under-35 straight men speaking with higher voices.<br />Dahlianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-47179801469165696142016-04-23T19:55:13.117-04:002016-04-23T19:55:13.117-04:00Seconds later in the Patrice video, he talks about...Seconds later in the Patrice video, he talks about the fascination over pimps, and how they "control something that's controlled by an unlikable creature". This mirrors what I posted earlier (as Anonymous) about breast-fixation stemming from being kept out of the "secret society", the cool kids club. The breast is more defining of the female form than the ass-gestalt, especially to men who can only watch and not partake, and makes for easy & obvious fantasy fodder.Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-91673489981313942602016-04-23T19:40:01.458-04:002016-04-23T19:40:01.458-04:00Another facet of the crypto-tranny: hyper-intellec...Another facet of the crypto-tranny: hyper-intellectualization, complete with dream-like space cadet daze, forever crunching data to rationalize it to fit their NiceGuy[TM] self-image. If they were more in touch with their desires, they may act in a way they were conditioned to fear repercussion for, so they distance themselves from their own bodily feelings to perform for the validation of others (the basis of narcissism). What begins as a curiosity that would otherwise be allowed to be expressed then probably dissipate, fester and pervert into absurdities, such as "interpreting themselves" as a woman. Similarly, no one who has the opportunity to express healthy, normal sexuality, also "can't get off unless they watch whacked-out fetish porn".<br /><br />Perhaps it's this unceasing "presenting" of themselves (presenting, as in to be taken* advantage of (read: fucked over by amoral opportunists)) to score brownie points and avoid discomfort that drives the constant self-monitoring to maintain their "pure" image, and keep any questionable desires from making it to consciousness. They don't even fantasize overtly, it's more like they've reverse-polarized into a feminine counterpart to their atrophying masculinity. They're trying to possess/exert control over what they desire, as Patrice O'Neal put it here, 21m48s in: https://youtu.be/PhsIZX0pdGE<br />*note the parallel between the feminine "being taken fantasy"<br /><br />After reading about codependency and narcissism in PUA's via Ricky Raw, I came across this gem, which speaks of a similar Peter Pan type. Begin from "While delivering Multi-Systemic Therapy"...<br />http://sgo.sagepub.com/content/2/4/2158244012470115Nicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-75571014228217037502016-04-22T14:18:04.570-04:002016-04-22T14:18:04.570-04:00Yes, it is more intellectually fascinating!
I wan...Yes, it is more intellectually fascinating!<br /><br />I want to get gossipy for a minute...<br />There is a Washington Post writer whose name I don't want to say, but I'm sure you'll figure out who I'm talking about. Per Steve Sailer, he fits the trannie profile: sci-fi kinda guy (yet he doesn't seem *at all* into numbers or that he would even fit in all that well @ Steve or Ron's; though he did interview Unz once about the minimum wage; guy's smart and more creative than most writers.) <br />He is very defensive and passionate about trannies, but I can't tell if that's just extreme, naive liberalism or something else.<br /><br />So my question: What is he? Just a standard lib, crypto-trannie, or likely future trannie?<br /><br />Despite the zeitgeist, I really don't want his name said: being a trannie is shameful and I wouldn't put my worst enemy's name together with those insinuations or thoughts.Dahlianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-22756871114966008512016-04-20T23:23:00.379-04:002016-04-20T23:23:00.379-04:00Nursing for 4 years would also roll back the onset...Nursing for 4 years would also roll back the onset of puberty, which keeps getting earlier and earlier in industrial societies. Weaning is one of those milestones in development -- push it back, and the other ones go as well.<br /><br />Middle school and high school would be a lot less awkward if Americans developed along hunter-gatherer norms, with girls reaching menarche around 17, courting at 18, marrying at 19, and first birth at 20.<br /><br />We had first births at age 20 for awhile in the mid-20th C., but we also have early onset of menarche. It puts modern teenagers in that distinctly awkward period of adolescence, since they're sexually maturing nearly one full decade before they're realistically going to give birth.<br /><br />H-G's avoid that awkward adolescence, but once they mature, all systems are go. Seems like a better system.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-50697511804979731412016-04-20T23:15:20.627-04:002016-04-20T23:15:20.627-04:00Maybe the crypto-tranny or overt tranny cases were...Maybe the crypto-tranny or overt tranny cases weren't breastfed -- interesting idea.<br /><br />As for generally being fixated on breasts, though, probably not -- it began in ancient times (not too ancient, though), before bottle feeding.<br /><br />Breastfeeding for 2-4 years strikes too many women as bizarre these days. I think even the "don't shame me for breastfeeding in public" crowd would find it creepy to nurse a toddler.<br /><br />But it would pay off big-league for the kid's health -- no addiction to refined sugars from birth. I wonder how much of kids' hyperactivity (the real kind) and obesity is due to swigging down gallons of apple-flavored sugar-water every week for the first 5-10 years of life.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-25709948240496357672016-04-20T16:14:19.206-04:002016-04-20T16:14:19.206-04:00Do a lot of these covert trannies find the breasts...Do a lot of these covert trannies find the breasts so overtly sexual because they were NOT breastfed? The rise of autogynephilia correlates somewhat with widespread bottle-feeding and smaller families, so these boys grow up without experiencing or seeing the natural, primary function of the breast. Perhaps they are regressing because they never experienced "proper" infancy and early childhood attachment to their mothers? Cry it out parenting philosophies might create or compound similar mental issues. While people criticize and ridicule the millenial generation for lacking parental discipline (and rightly so) they were also a generation of majority bottle-feeding, crib sleeping, cry it out, and daycare/public schooling. All while being more likely to be only children and thus poorly socialized. No wonder they (we) are rife with sexual and relationship fiascoes. We don't have tons of divorce; we simply dont marry at all.<br /><br />To continue close to this topic, there would be a much better understanding of the differences between men and women and father and mother were the simple but profound tradition of normal (that is, extended to 2-4 years) nursing more widespread. Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11734624055833603768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-66071999714359220982016-04-20T15:54:21.898-04:002016-04-20T15:54:21.898-04:00"I became obsessed with female sexual pleasur..."I became obsessed with female sexual pleasure as the "real meaning" of sex."<br /><br />That is a common theme in the shifting preferences of today. Guys thinking that the girl's enjoyment is an engineering problem to be solved by knowing the blueprint of the anatomy, applying the right tool at the right angle with the right pressure, etc.<br /><br />In real life, it's down to whether they're hot for each other. Could mean deeply in love, but could also mean a fling with "random hot guy" (symmetrical).<br /><br />That's a typically male mindset -- everything is an engineering problem -- but being applied in a seemingly feminine role, where he's the one striving to please her physically, with less concern about his own pleasure.<br /><br />It's another instance of the uncanny valley with latent and overt transgenders -- trying to present as female (sensitive, attentive) while viewing her arousal as a mechanical engineering project.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-30308995446565104842016-04-20T15:45:18.466-04:002016-04-20T15:45:18.466-04:00""primitive" peoples tend to have m...""primitive" peoples tend to have more common steatopygia (think hottentot venus), so they're much more likely to be "ass men""<br /><br />Seems more like a tropical thing (where people are still largely primitive today). Eskimos are fairly primitive, but they don't have "ghetto booty". Neither did the Scandinavians back when they were primitive, compared to the civilized Mediterraneans who were packing more heat in the seat.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19346366.post-33905322162457967972016-04-20T15:42:15.695-04:002016-04-20T15:42:15.695-04:00"A simpler explanation is that "ass men&..."A simpler explanation is that "ass men" tend towards closeted homosexuality,"<br /><br />Mature sexual orientation must seem confusing to those who still fixate on breastfeeding.<br /><br />Men and women both have faces, so guys who focus on the face are also closeted homos, and ditto leg men.<br /><br />It's the overall feminine gestalt that is attractive, and most of that is due to the shape of their waist, belly, hips, buttocks, and thighs.<br /><br />That's why you would find a tranny more arousing than a small-breasted girl with a bubble butt -- your mind is stuck in the infantile stage where body shape doesn't matter, the only thing that distinguishes women is their milkers.agnostichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12967177967469961883noreply@blogger.com